And so when the clock ticks later, bye bye 2012.
I personally called 2012 my mourning year. It starts good.. especially the gateaway to Cameron Highland with him and friends. Got to know new friends and all that. But soon to be wrecked down as soon as I found out whats been happening while I wasn’t in the same room. Or even taking a glance at the phone, or not even caring to check the messages or email. Trust. A word played so easily.
I then recalled my tuition teacher once said; “Enjoy life pretty little girl. Coz life wouldn’t stay as crazy as you thought once it started.” I never gotta know what it meant.
Until this year.
And grandpa once said; “Life starts… when u learnt to trust but to be betrayed instead; When u be loyal but someone dishonesty tear you down. When you put in everything regardless your own feelings but to be ignored and unappreciated, and especially when you lost someone you dearly love.”
I was scared. Or simply in denial of what he said. But towards the end of this year.. I realised he’d been reminding me the harshest truth of life.
And yes, my life has just begun!
It was April, for the first time, I chase a person. Bought a ticket. Finds out truth. Break down and cried. Staying intact. Being left alone for a month contactless. Then, Trying to forget. Forgiving. Moving on.. but at the same time still putting high hopes that things would change, that feelings would still be the same, that butterfly will still fly around in the stomach.
With all that happening and striving hard to gain the broken trust alive again..
Then, It was May, I was awarded a scholarship after 2years of difficulty without allowance, except the money given from my parents. Which I believed you all may know how much that meant for a student like me.
October came, my beloved grandpa passed away. Again, I was left alone. In the most extreme time that I needed a person to hear me out; but.. my housemate packed and ready to move out. I gathered my strength. With all the broken pieces and still standing strong smiling at what passes my world.
Then, December came, how this year flies away so fast. So so fast. The trip to Port Dickson marked the 3rd yr in my current relationship.
Grandpa’s words rings by my ears.. “You never know how strong you are until you’ve been hurt.”
Well then there, I hope this mourning year pass away and will never come back! I wish for a happy new year.
A change.
A new beginning!!